The language of the body in NLP and dance therapy: decoding postures, tensions, gestures as reflections of inner patterns

Article published at: Aug 9, 2025 Article author: Aurélie Kouéta Article tag: danse thérapie
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The body, a mirror of the inner self

Our gestures, our postures, and our tensions sometimes say more than our words. Body language is not just a simple "detail" of communication: it reflects our deep emotions, our beliefs, our inner patterns. In NLP as in dance therapy, the body becomes a tool for understanding and transformation, allowing us to decode what is happening within us beyond the verbal.

NLP: observing to understand inner patterns

The Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is based on the idea that our body expresses our internal states. Crossing arms, averting gaze, breathing quickly: these are all clues about how we interact with the world. NLP practitioners use these observations to:

🔵Detect emotional tensions (for example, a tense shoulder revealing fear or restraint);

🔵Identify inconsistencies between what is said and what the body expresses (the famous "double message");

🔵Access resources: an open posture, a bodily grounding can activate more confidence and fluidity.

NLP does not seek to "correct" these signs but to understand them, in order to give more choice and freedom to individuals in their interactions.

Dance therapy: when the body speaks before words

In dance therapy, the body is not only observed: it is mobilized as a vector of expression. Tensions become languages, gestures silent narratives. A repetitive movement can reveal an emotional loop, an imbalance a difficulty in finding one's place. By giving the body the space to express itself, we allow:

🔵To externalize repressed emotions that do not find their way into words;

🔵To reconnect body and mind by restoring a fluid circulation of energy;

🔵To explore new possibilities: dancing a power posture, for example, can transform the way we perceive and act.

Concrete examples: what the body tells

Some simple illustrations of this "body language":

🔵A hunched back can translate an emotional burden or an unconscious desire to protect oneself;

🔵A jerky walking rhythm sometimes reflects a state of tension or impatience;

🔵An apparent immobility can hide an inner overflow, like a silence charged with emotions.

These signs, far from being "diagnoses," are entry points to listen to and support the lived experience.

My support: putting into words what the body expresses

In my support sessions in NLP and dance therapy, I help decode and transform these bodily messages. This can involve:

🔵Exercises of observation and grounding to become aware of one's own postures and what they translate;

🔵Sessions of free movement to release tensions and explore new ways of standing and interacting;

🔵Rituals of transformation where a repetitive or limiting gesture is gradually replaced by a more fluid and supportive movement.

The body speaks — it is necessary to give it a space to be heard. By relearning to decode its messages, everyone can find more alignment, freedom, and serenity.

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